HISTORY OF THE GRAHAM FAMILY.
The Grahams, like many of the early settlers of the Valley of Virginia, were of Scotch-Irish descent and came from counties Donegal and Londonderry, in the northern part of Ireland. The term, Scotch-Irish, does not necessarily mean a blending of blood between the Scotch and Irish nations, but implies the Scotch who emigrated from Scotland and settled in Ireland. During the years beginning shortly after the middle of seventeenth century, there was a large emigration from Scotland to Ireland, having been brought about on account of religious persecutions the Scotch received at home.
The treatment and torture dealt out to these pious religious people, who held tenaciously to the principles of the Presbyterian faith, by the  church of England, under the false cloak of religion, would of itself fill a volume much larger than that contemplated in these pages, and reference is merely made to show the stern and unwavering character of a people who were driven from post to pillar, and suffered almost unendurable hardships and degradations, rather than depart from a principle which they believed to be the teachings of the Bible, as well as having the approval of their conscience. Thus, more than two centuries ago our ancestral parents left their beautiful homes in their native land, and looking for the last time on the green sloping swords of the Grampian Hills and bid farewell forever to the graves of their fathers and mothers, and left behind all that was near and dear to them, even as their own lovely Scotland, and took up their march for the Emerald Isle, in the vain hope that the persecutions and trials which had hitherto made life hideous, would cease and they would be free to exercise their faith[,] which had so long been the desire of their conscience.  But alas! for human expectations. Their sojourn is but for a while, until the broad and inviting land across the Atlantic bade them once more take up their line of march and plant their homes in the New World, where they would be free to worship God according to the dictates of their own conscience, unhindered by church or state. Among the many families who thus emigrated from Scotland to Ireland and later from Ireland to America, we might mention the following names: Forbesses, Stuarts, Hamiltons, Montgomerys, Alexanders, Grahams, Shaws, Moores, Lewises, Pattons, Mathews, Prestons, Baxtons, Lyles, Grigsbys, Crawfords, Comminses, Browns, Wallaces, Wilsons, Caruthers, Campbells, McClungs, McCues, McKees, McCowns, Lockridges, Boyds, Barclays, McDonals and Baileys, described as, “knights and gentlemen of Scotland, whose prosperity holds good to this day.” They were Irish Presbyterians, who, being of Scotch extraction, were called Scotch-Irish.
 These names are to-day familiar house-hold words of the names of our own land and are but a repetition, and of the same lineal descent of their noble ancestors, who, more than two centuries ago stood ever firm to the Magna Charta of Scottish rights, and rallied under their brave banners, emblazoned with the faith of their own creed, in the famous golden letters, “For Christ’s Crown and Covenant,” they waited undaunted, the tyranny of their foes.
As we have said, their sojourn in Ireland was but temporary, as to a large proportion of those who emigrated there. Of course, many hindered by poverty and other causes no doubt, made that their permanent home.
The relief which they sought, they found but temporary in their new found homes in Ireland. Under the rule of tyrant kings, their suffering and punishment was endurable only for its contrasts with their former suffering. Tithes and taxes demanded from their wrecked estates to support a church, not of their own choice; restrained  from speaking their own opinions; living in a strange land; dwelling among enemies of their faith, all combined to make them an unhappy and restless people. Longing for new homes, the silent whispers came across the ocean that the Mayflower, years before had landed others, persecuted like themselves, safely on the other side of the blue waters. This gave them hope. “For thou, O, God, hast proved us, and thou hast tried us as silver is tried; thou broughtest us into the net; thou layest afflictions upon our loins; thou hast caused men to ride over our heads; we went through fire and through water; but though broughtest us out into a wealth place.” Gathering together what little worldly goods they possessed, which was very meagre, and often nothing, save their Bible. They embarked for the New World, landing upon the banks of the Deleware, [sic] and many rested for a season in the land of Pennsylvania.
William Penn, having been formerly a subject of the King of England, and witnessed the perse-  cution of his own church (though he himself was a favorite of King James) it was but natural that these people should seek out in the New World, those that had been persecuted for conscience sake in the old world.
Among those who sought fresh relief and new homes amid the untrodden forests of America, few stood higher or occupied positions more exalted than the Grahams. During that bloody, treacherous, and ever memorable struggle in England, Ireland and Scotland, in which King James was dethroned, and William, Price of Orange, a presbyterian, became his successor — a time when no man could remain neutral, but, all must declare, either for the time honored established church of England; the papistry of King James; or for that faith which they believed to be taught in Holy Writ. According to the dictates of their own conscience, the Grahams occupied prominent positions on either side.
One Richard Graham, known as Viscount Preston, held the position of Secretary of State of  Scotland, under King James, about the year 1685; and history tells us that he was one [of] the privy council, and most trusty advisers of the king; that his plans and recommendations were often adhered to, rather than those of the king himself. As a leader of the House of Commons, he counseled King James to reassemble the Houses of Parliament, in order to secure a peaceful settlement of differences between church and state. He was also made Lord Lieutenant for both the counties of Cumberland and Westmoreland, a position very rare and remarkable for one man to occupy.
During the absence of King James from the throne, who, on account of his fear of opposers, had fled to Salisbury, Richard Graham and four associates were appointed a committee, known as the Council of Five, to transact the business of the Throne until such time as might be deemed expedient for the king to return.
The positions of high honor and trust, held and occupied by this one man were many, and to rehearse  them all in detail, would require more space than it is our purpose here to consume in this brief sketch; suffice it to say that he seems to have been a leader of his party in both civic and military affairs; a minister at the courts of foreign countries; honored, trusted and adhered to, and we might add, obeyed by kings; feared and esteemed by the House of Commons, and held in the highest respect by the common people. While he was true and devoted to King James, in the sense of patriotism, it does not appear that he was a persecutor of those who differed from the king’s religious views.
James Graham, of Claverhouse, viscount of Dundee, was also a noted character in that eventful struggle, and while his persecution of those who differed from the religious persuasions of King James, must ever be deplored, we take consolation in the fact that he but carried out the dictates and decrees of his Master. That his fidelity to the king was ever true through life, and even in the hour of death, is fully substantiated  in his last utterance, after having spent an eventful life in the king’s cause.
After King James had vacated the throne, and William and Mary had been triumphantly crowned, and the armies of James abandoned and scattered, General Graham, with his indomitable will and ever-to-be admired energy, hoping against hope, collected together such as he could of the remaining fragmentary army of his escaped master and repaired to the Highlands of Scotland, where he succeeded in interesting the Scottish Chiefs of those Highland Clans, in behalf of the cause of the late king. The remoteness of these semi-barbarians from the active scene of war, coupled with their disinclination to inform themselves of the nature of the conflict, soon led them through the fluency of Graham’s speech to espouse his cause. Having sought and obtained the sympathy of all the principal chiefs of the various clans, he assembled them together and a council was held to decide the mode of warfare. The detached fragmentary of the army whom  Graham hitherto commanded, chagrined with former defeats, protested against a battle with those who espoused the cause of King William. While the leaders of the Highland Clans urged immediate assault, saying their men were ready and eager for the fray.
General Graham was influenced by the counsel of the Highlanders, assuring them that he would lead them to victory; that he himself would march in front of his army; to this, his subordinate officers objected, saying, he was too valuable a leader to expose his person in front of the battle, and urged him to remain in the rear and dictate the movements of his army in the on-coming conflict. To this Graham replied, “your people are accustomed to seeing their leader in the van of battle, and there I shall be seen this day, but after the decision of this day, I shall be more careful of my person and not expose myself in action as heretofore has been my custom.” After that statement, his army was commanded to move forward, himself being in the lead. 
Soon the foe was met and the battle of Killikrankie was fought. Early in the engagement Graham was shot, having raised his hand above his head and standing erect in his stirrups, giving command, his shield or armour raised above his waistband, exposing his person, when the ball took effect, he fell from his horse and one of his subordinate officers coming up to him, inquired if his injuries were fatal, Graham answered by saying, “How goes the cause of the king?” The attendant answered, “the cause of the king is well; how is your lordship?” Graham replied, “it matters not for me, so the cause of the king is safe.” These were his last words. Though dying on the field, his army won a great victory and the battle of Killikrankie has passed into history, as one of the most memorable events of that time. History hands down to us other names of the Grahams, who were more or less noted in their day and time, of which we might mention, Malcolm Graham, who is last, but by no means least, stood high in society and was  bound with a golden chain by King James the II to Ellen Douglass, the girl he loved so well; dishonoring thus thy loyal name.
- Fetters and warden for the Greame (Graham)
His chain of gold the king unstrung;
The links o’er Malcolm’s neck he flung,
Then gently drew the glittering band,
And laid the clasp on Ellen’s hand.
From the above selection it will be noticed that the name is spelled Greame. Whether the author drew upon his poetical license for this misnomer or whether the name was sometimes so spelled by the Scotts, we are unable to determine.
In the early settlement of this country, when people paid but little attention to the orthography of names — the name was often spelled Grimes. There seems, however, to have been no authority whatever for this contortion of the name.
The only excuse that might be offered for this misapplication of the name is that the names of the early settlers were scarcely, if ever, seen in print and but seldom in writing, but were handed  orally from one to another, thus giving plenty of opportunity for misunderstandings. We can recall many names, which in our youth were pronounced differently from what they now are. To illustrate, the name Stevenson was called “Stinson”; the name Withrow was called “Watherow”; Stodghill was called “Stargeon” and so on. We even find in this day a few of the old-styled fathers and mothers who do not like to discontinue the old-fashioned way of expressing these names.
The Graham name in all English history and in the history of our country, as well as in all the legal writings pertaining to the family, from the earliest settlement in America down to the present time, is spelled as we now have it — Graham.
The people of Scotland of the same family tree were known as clans; and these clans seem to have been bound together by very strong and endearing ties.
Such were the adhesion of these family clans that they kept themselves almost entirely aloof  from other clans; marriage and intermarriage by members of one clan to another was scarcely admissible. If a member of one clan provoked or insulted a member of another clan, the insult was resented by the clan whose member had been insulted; thus we find arose many of the clan feuds, with which Scottish history so much abounds.
Each clan had its official head chief or leader, whose duty it was to dictate to his people such a course as seemed to him most wise and discreet or that happened to please the whims of his own fancies. In military affairs this leader or chief was expected to occupy the most dangerous positions and to perform the most daring of the exploits in the heat of battle. He must either win a victory, in which he performed some noble part, or die in defeat.
The Graham clan was a very large and influential one, and, perhaps, at the time of its greatest power, had for its official head James Graham, the Earl of Montrose, who laid down his life for love to his king.
 It is claimed in Scottish history that the Graham family dates back for a thousand years, and has been conspicuous in the annal of their country, “from hovel to the palace, in arts, in eloquence and in song”. “It was a daring man by the name of Graham that first broke through the walls of Agricola which the Roman general had built between the firths of the Clyde and Forth to keep off the incursions of the Northern Britons, and the ruins of which, still visible, are called to this day the ruins of Graham’s Dyke”. [end of section, but not of page]
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I am a desendent of the Graham family. My great grandfather James Lanty Graham built the first three story log cabin in the 1770 at Lowell, West Virginia.
I love reading this history of my family. Thank you for sharing.
Well then, you are my cousin. Col. Graham is also my 4th great grandfather. My father recently passed away and it prompted me to research my lineage.
David Graham was my 3rd great grandfather. WFT 1760-1789 According to records handed down to me from family researchers, he was the son of John Graham and Rebecca. He married Jane Dunn on 25 Dec 1796 in Monogalia Co, (W)VA. Does anyone know of his connection to this family? He moved to Sardinia, OH in 1809. I found this on Ancestry. It explains why John is listed as his Father. He was not the biological Father. “MAY 28, 1751. – (580) Thomas Mann, orphan of John Mann, to be bound; James and David, orphans of Wm. Graham, ditto.
AUGUST 29, 1751. – (185) John Graham appointed guardian of James and David Graham, orphans of Wm. Graham.
Page 386.–29th August, 1751. John Graham’s bond as guardian to James and David Graham, orphans of Wm. Graham; appointed.” Now found another paper with David Graham married to a Jane Walkup. Really confusing. Mine was married to Jane Dunn. Too many Davids living in the same area and near same birth date.
I am so excited to be able to read and research… I am related to you all as well, Col Graham is my 7th great grandfather! My father passed away 11 years ago, a week after his 80th birthday… My father was an only child and his mother passed away quite young and I grew up not knowing any relatives on my fathers side. This is exciting and I know my dad would love knowing all of these stories and information before his passing…
I’m glad to hear you are finding relevant information, cuz.
Col. James Graham was my 5X great-grandfather. My father passed away in 2000 but I am so excited to learn about his family and my history. He would have enjoyed knowing more about our roots. I am a Presbyterian but had no idea that any of my family dated back to Scotland and the Reformation.
I am looking for any family tree information on our Graham Family. I have included a little of what we have below. Please let me know if you have any information that will be helpful in adding or extending our Graham line. Thanks.
Hugh and Mary Grahame of the parish of North Knapdale, County of Argyle, North Britain (Scotland) emigrated to the United States with 3 children and settled in North Carolina. An original letter declaring them to be free of debt or any other hindrances so that they may be received in the United States as being of “unblemished character and credit” has come down through the years and is now in the possession of Alvin Graham of Charlotte, NC. It is dated July 12, 1782. The earliest recorded wills in North Carolina show a Hugh Graham (with the e omitted) remembering his wife, Mary, son, Duncan, and daughter, Flora, along with grandchildren Hugh and Flora Fedder. It was dated September 10, 1824. If this is the couple who emigrated in July, 1782, something must have happened to one of the children. Duncan Graham, the son mentioned in the will of 1824, has a will of his own recorded in the historical records of North Carolina. It is dated June 23, 1856. From this will and from other recorded wills and official papers, it appears that Duncan Graham had two wives. The first appears to have been Flora Ausley, and the second wife was Elizabeth (Betsy). We don’t know the surname. It was impossible to determine which children came from the first or second marriage. The following letter came to America with Hugh Graham: “To whom it may concern, That the bearer Hugh Grahame, and Mary Grahame his spouse, with three children were born and did reside in the parish of North Knapdale County of Argyle North Britain during the former part of their life; That during this period their conduct has been decent and suitable to the Christian character, so that they may be received into any Society where Providence may determine their Lot; That in consequence of Letters of encouragement from friends in North America, they are now resolved, to emigrate from this Country to that quarter, and it is hereby further certified, that they are free of debt or any other hindrance known to us so that the States may receive them, as men of unblemished character and credit. The above is attested in consequence of the order of the Kirksession by me At Kilm le Inverbussay this 12th day of July 1782 years. Arch d Campbell MM of North Knapdale.” The letter stated that three children came to America with Hugh and Mary Grahame. I only have the names of two children at this time (1994).
Check on the following for accuracy:
Name: Flory Graham (child)
Baptism Date: 21 Apr 1794
Baptism Place: North Knapdale,Argyll,Scotland
Father: Hugh Graham
Mother: Peggy Mcguirmin
FHL Film Number: 1041074
Another member of the Graham family here – I’m a direct descendant of David Graham, going back 6 generations on my mom’s side. My mom, Susan Virginia Graham Redmond, typed the 859 page transcript that it is the basis for this site. She was a way better typist than I am.
She occasionally mentioned that we have some Native American blood, I believe Powhatan, but I don’t know much beyond that. If my great grandfather Luther Powhatan Graham was still around, I would certainly ask him about it.
I could try a medium, I suppose. Aside from that, there’s asking who knows anything about this very interesting aspect of our family and what you can share, either here or with me via email (firstname.lastname@example.org) or cell (201 446-0422). Thank you for sharing what you know!